So, what if...
Jan. 24th, 2019 08:18 amWhat if, and bear with me here... What if we queered Persuasion? I lover Persuasion, it's totes my favourite Jane Austen, no disrespect intended. But still, what if...?
Say we take as our premise a British version of "don't ask, don't tell" (as long as they don't do it in the street and frighten the horses). Ladies living with female companions are totes a thing already, older spinsters of quality setting up home together to save on the bills and allow them to maintain a quality of life they have become accustomed too once they're too old for the marriage mart.
Anne Elliot obviously wouldn't be allowed to set up in an establishment like that at a young age. Her attraction to Miss Wentworth would naturally be seen as a youthful silliness, especially while she was still of an age to make a good empression on society and receive a favourable offer.
But later... When she had a good many seasons under her belt and had attracted no offers... The idea of Anne Elliot setting up with the now rich widowed Lady (used to be Wentworth) would be 'respectable'.
Say we take as our premise a British version of "don't ask, don't tell" (as long as they don't do it in the street and frighten the horses). Ladies living with female companions are totes a thing already, older spinsters of quality setting up home together to save on the bills and allow them to maintain a quality of life they have become accustomed too once they're too old for the marriage mart.
Anne Elliot obviously wouldn't be allowed to set up in an establishment like that at a young age. Her attraction to Miss Wentworth would naturally be seen as a youthful silliness, especially while she was still of an age to make a good empression on society and receive a favourable offer.
But later... When she had a good many seasons under her belt and had attracted no offers... The idea of Anne Elliot setting up with the now rich widowed Lady (used to be Wentworth) would be 'respectable'.
Survived a week of work!
Jan. 11th, 2019 07:38 pmSeriously tho. When is the blasted sun gonna start getting up at a decent hour? Blargh.
I didn't murder anyone at work, so that's good. My timetable for later on in term looks horrendous, but I'll have to work out how to manage the overtime/exhaustion/brain death when I get there. Joy!
But it's the weekend. I have pizza. And I'm going out for a hopefully lovely walk in the daylight tomorrow
I didn't murder anyone at work, so that's good. My timetable for later on in term looks horrendous, but I'll have to work out how to manage the overtime/exhaustion/brain death when I get there. Joy!
But it's the weekend. I have pizza. And I'm going out for a hopefully lovely walk in the daylight tomorrow
Sometimes I just have to tell myself the old story. That there is a lot of sadness in the world, and some days you get somebody else's to carry for a few hours. It's not your sadness. You don't have a reason or a trigger for it. It's just that somebody else was so sad. Was breaking under their sadness. And pleaded with the universe for someone, anyone, to take a little of it for a short while. And that's what you've got. And it's OK. Cos wouldn't you want to take and carry sadness for a person who was that sad?
So you just look after yourself. Treat yourself well. Don't give in to it. And know that it will be gone tomorrow, or in a few days. You are, after all, only carrying it for someone else for a while.
So you just look after yourself. Treat yourself well. Don't give in to it. And know that it will be gone tomorrow, or in a few days. You are, after all, only carrying it for someone else for a while.
Sleep soothes all things
Dec. 29th, 2018 08:20 amCurrent method of managing the holiday season: Regular sleep and exercise cycle. Proved by much evidence.
Not sure the research meant this much sleep though. I think it was 11 hours last night. Thank goodness for a Tivo that records all the interesting evening tele for me so I can watch it during the afternoon.
Not sure the research meant this much sleep though. I think it was 11 hours last night. Thank goodness for a Tivo that records all the interesting evening tele for me so I can watch it during the afternoon.
Survived Christmas
Dec. 27th, 2018 09:51 amChristmas is survived. I'm back in my lively quiet house with my stuff and my programmes on the Tivo and generally aggressively pulling the blanket of ROUTINE over my head and nesting inside it for at least 3 days to get my head back on line.
Example:today is Thursday. On Thursdays we run. So I went for a wee jog - not as long as usual, but Thursday is a "change it up" run day anyway, so that's cool. And I met a puppy! Puppies are best. It was proper young and fodolopy.
later is Mary Poppins and then a swim and sit in a steam room for ages, stretching and breathing and stuff. That's usually a Monday thing, but I missed it cos twas Christmas eve. So I'm having it today.
And then much veggie stir-fry, and an early night. Tomorrow is grocery shopping, washing the bike, and maybe a cycle ride. A regular sleep cycle is the goal, and I'm gonna get there!
Example:today is Thursday. On Thursdays we run. So I went for a wee jog - not as long as usual, but Thursday is a "change it up" run day anyway, so that's cool. And I met a puppy! Puppies are best. It was proper young and fodolopy.
later is Mary Poppins and then a swim and sit in a steam room for ages, stretching and breathing and stuff. That's usually a Monday thing, but I missed it cos twas Christmas eve. So I'm having it today.
And then much veggie stir-fry, and an early night. Tomorrow is grocery shopping, washing the bike, and maybe a cycle ride. A regular sleep cycle is the goal, and I'm gonna get there!
Rant Incoming
Sep. 2nd, 2018 07:43 amI have Muslim colleagues. I grew up in a highly Muslim area. I'm am furious that the Islamophobic incitement written by Boris in a newspaper has been completely forgotten (the Tories didn't even make him apologise) whereas Labour is pulling itself apart over antisemitism.
I don't want less investigation of antisemitism. I want more investigation of Boris's racism and dog whistle column writing. Islamophobic attacks increased (and the increase measured and reported) after his newspaper column.
If I were someone of the Muslim faith living in this country,I would be taking a note of who is ignored by the general public. Who's case is not taken up. Who doesn't get defended against clear incitement of hate. And I would be very afraid.
I don't want less investigation of antisemitism. I want more investigation of Boris's racism and dog whistle column writing. Islamophobic attacks increased (and the increase measured and reported) after his newspaper column.
If I were someone of the Muslim faith living in this country,I would be taking a note of who is ignored by the general public. Who's case is not taken up. Who doesn't get defended against clear incitement of hate. And I would be very afraid.
This is why we can't have nice things :-(
Jun. 27th, 2018 07:13 amInfighting between Tory ministers spills over into environmental protection. This Liz Truss mess is all over the radio this morning. OK, so she wanted to annoy Gove and get her name in the news, but by hitting out at Clean Air Policy needs (oh look, we might have to reduce use of wood burning stoves, that's silly isn't it) we now have the degredation of authority of the Environment Ministry all over the radio news at the most listened to time.
This is why we NEEDED to keep EU environmental regulation. Without it, our environment protections are exposed to stoopid infighting by ministers. Env policy NEEDS to be long term and forward looking. It can't be that when it's in house. We've enough evidence of that from the past.
I have SUCH rage this morning. Were fecked and there's nothing I can do to stop it.
This is why we NEEDED to keep EU environmental regulation. Without it, our environment protections are exposed to stoopid infighting by ministers. Env policy NEEDS to be long term and forward looking. It can't be that when it's in house. We've enough evidence of that from the past.
I have SUCH rage this morning. Were fecked and there's nothing I can do to stop it.